"Honestly you don't agree do you?"
Sorry, that was me talking. Here is what I mean below:http://www.christiantoday.com/article/united.reformed.church.to.allow.same.sex.marriages/90226.htm
1 Corinthians 7:1-6 NIV
 Now for the matters you wrote about: “It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.”  But since sexual immorality is occurring, each man should have sexual relations with his own wife, and each woman with her own husband.  The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband.  The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife.  Do not deprive each other except perhaps by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.  I say this as a concession, not as a command.
We should not judge a church but at the same time, what the apostle Paul was talking about was that every person who marries, should be of the opposite gender, not the other way around where Satan can creep in. You get the idea.
Here is some clues: http://iluvbingjcsbride.blogspot.com/2016/04/the-true-biblical-meaning-of-marriage.html
Hope these posts encourage you to know that I can pray for you and our nation!